Sunday Breakfast for the Elderly at French Road

The grannies and grandpas arrived at the coffeeshop well before 9 am for the free breakfast session organised by Project Awareness. There were about 50 volunteers who turned up, including student groups and members of the People's Association's Teens' Network Club. 

The volunteers helped usher the arrivals, man the food stalls, serve the elderly who have difficulties queueing up or carrying their food, engaged them in small talk and even went up to the flats to assist some of the elderly residents to come down.

They ate, they talked and they laughed. The joy on the faces of the grannies and hrandpas was the only reward that the volunteers were looking forward to. The handshakes and expressions of thanks brought extra encouragement and the volunteers were deeply touched as much as the folks who were invited for this free breakfast.

We may not be able to feed 100 people but we can feed at least one. Not all of us can do great things but all of us can do small things with great love. These were the words of Mother Theresa. Today, not only did the volunteers feed more than 100 people, they also succeeded in doing a small service for the old folks with great love!

Jalan Tenteram Visit 25.04.15

I made a returned visit to Jalan Tenteram to follow up on some of the families that I had visited last week and to visit other residents as well. Apparently, many volunteers have visited Mrs. Jalil after reading about her plight and she was clearly more cheerful today. To improve her mobility, I presented to her an adjustable walking aid donated by a friend. Thanks too, Carol.

Eddy was sitting outside his groundfloor flat and he had visitors who came to drop them some goodies in the week. He was watching the world around him go by and Old Granny Jenny has gone to the market. When she got home later in the day and took out her new umbrella cum walking aid that had been presented to her by Project Awareness, she expressed her shyness to use it. After much coaxing to try it out, she finally saw how useful the umbrella was.

16 year old Aili and her sister lives with her grandma. Both of them were brought up by their grandma and study in a school nearby. Her parents are working and they live in another location. Aili has been particpating in volunteer work organised by her school under its CIP programme. She found me strangely familiar and was exhilarated to realise that she has seen me on some tv programmes. Without hesitation, we had a photo taken together just at her doorway.

Old Grandpa Kang is 85 and has just cycled home. Deaf in his right ear, he used to work in Indonesia. He enjoyed working and even in his 70s, he worked as a despatch rider. He once had an accident and lost a toe. He has 4 daughters and 1 son and is probably the oldest resident in this block of flats which was built during the time when Lim Yew Hock was the Chief Minister. As we were talking, his wife and 3rd daughter came home. Tomorrow, like every Sunday, Old Grandpa Kang's children, granchildren, great grandchildren and one great-great grandchild (5 generations) will be getting together in his flat.

This Grandpa's flat is full of things that he hoards and he refuses to clear them away. He lives all by himself and needs some rations. In another flat, another hoarder similarly refuses to remove any of his stuffs and his living room has little space for walking. The floor needs a good scrub but this 89 year-old resident, who is hard of hearing, would rather keep it that way.

These are just some of the people who live in our midst. Some are more fortunate while others are more unfortunate. When those more fortunate are willing to help those less fortunate, what a wonderful world this would be.

French Road Visit 22.04.15

The story behind every door 

She is a Singaporean and a mother of 5 children, the youngest of which is in primary 3. Her Malaysian husband has tried repeatedly to obtain permanent residency in Singapore but to no avail. Without her husband by her side and unable to cope with her stresses, she eventually plunged into major depression. When her close friend found out she was treated at IMH, their relationship ended. She cried over 3 days. The thought of losing her close friend still causes her pain. Her bills are pilling up and her children are losing interests in their studies. 

He is 76 years old and has been a tailor since the age of 20. His flat-mate had just passed away and he is looking at how to dispose of the deceased's belongings that are in the flat. He works from home and provides his tailoring services to a tailor shop that supplies him the fabric. He gets paid when he collects the fabric from the shop and has to personally deliver his completed handiwork. Working long hours each day, he is as healthy as he says he is and always wore a ready smile. 

He had a stroke and was lying in bed when I visited. His helper opened the gate and showed me in. He spoke softly in Mandarin and there was not a word of complaint from him. He was contented as he was as he could still move but needs a wheelchair to go downstairs. When asked if there was anything he needed, he gently replied that he was doing fine. 

This elderly couple have been living in the same flat for 15 years. They have 5 grown-up children who are living on their own. Their neighbourhood has become too noisy for them and they are troubled. She suffers from asthma and is in frail health and he is taking care of her. They need a quieter place for her recuperation are applying to move to a nearby flat but are worried that they may not get it. 

It is always good to volunteer our time and thank you Project Awareness for giving me this opportunity to lend my helping hand and listening ear. Different stories unfold behind every door that I knock. As I walked from one flat to the next, I could feel my emotions fluctuate. We live to learn and learn to live, don't we?