Kindness begets kindness

Her family is a beneficiary under Project Awareness but she can't wait to reciprocate. Tonight, secondary school student, Liani, joined me to visit a Malay resident in Tampines with Jacky.

Mdm Rohaini is in her early 60s' and live in a one room flat with her younger sister, a divorcee who works10 hours a day to earn $50 as a kitchen helper. Mdm Rohaini used to work as a cleaner earning $1,020 until this year when she had to stop working. She had a heart by-pass surgery 10 years ago and has to undergo another bypass. She has already gone through two heart surgeries and is due to be operated again soon.

Her monthly rent and utilities come up to about $300 and she is waiting for the outcome of her application to Comcare for financial support. On advice, she will be seeing her MP to help her reduce the rent as her sister is the only one working and she is incapacitated.

Mdm Rohaini needs a wheelchair to go out and has one on loan from her brother. However, she has to return it soon as her brother's mother-in-law,who suffered a stroke, needs it again. When we visited her, her mentally-challenged younger brother was there. He has come to help take care of Mdm Rohaini and was sitting by her bedside.

We left the flat but returned later from a nearby supermarket. Liani had helped us to pick some items for Mdm Rohaini. Besides rice and biscuits, there was also fresh ration as Mdm Rohaini and her sister still cook at home. This was the second time that Liani has turned volunteer. When I asked her about the visit tonight, she said she was willing to help out more often. 

Liani has set an example of how people who receive help can help others as well. Kindness begets kindness and that really keeps everything going in the right direction.

Releasing the Apron String

SG50 has been on the lips of Singaporeans since plans were afoot to celebrate 50 years of independence and separation from Malaysia in an unforgettable fashion. Many Singaporeans have been asked what they wish for our country and the common aspiration is to have a more prosperous and successful Singapore. I have been asked what my wish is for SG 50 and frankly, it is easy to make a wish but for it to come true will require a shift in mindset.

In one of the interviews given by the late Mr. Lee Kuan Yew in his twilight years, he said:

"What is it that I want to do now? To try and secure the future, for what has already been built and not to lose it. Whether it's going to be done by the PAP or any other person or any other party, that is irrelevant. We must keep a system that will enable this place to stand out and prosper."

This message from Mr. Lee Kuan Yew may have been missed by many. He had emphasised that it does not matter which party is going to be able to secure the future of Singapore. The real focus should be on a "system" that will allow our nation to continue with its success and prosperity.

With this message at the back of my mind, I was therefore somewhat dismayed when I read the battle cry by PM Lee for the next general election:

"Our country is at stake...if PAP fails, Singapore is in deep trouble. We shall not fail." [Read More]

With all due respect to PM Lee, whilst he may be concerned about the performance of PAP at the next election, he has to look beyond the GEs if Singapore's interest is above all else. If Singapore has to depend on PAP or any one political party for its survival, then that system which it has in place, cannot be a good thing for Singapore. PM Lee cannot live forever and we may not necessarily have a succession of respectable leaders at the helm of the ruling party.

History has demonstrated the effects of how over time and with changes in leadership, political parties and dynasties are eventually plagued by power corruption, selfish agendas and the effects of group think. For a country to continue to grow in stature, prosper and succeed, she also needs all the talents that she can muster. And no political party can genuinely lay claim to a monopoly of all the talents in the land. When a system is free to operate without the interference of partisan politics, and is ready and open to accept any relevant talent regardless of his or her political affiliation, then that system will be able to truly generate new ideas and hope for a better future, That is the kind of system that we need to develop over the next 10 to 15 years.

The question that we have think about seriously in SG50 is whether or not the future of Singapore should continue to be tied to the fortunes of any one political party? After 50 years of economic growth and development, it would be sad to face the prospect that if PAP fails, Singapore is at stake. This is not to suggest that it is high time to change the PAP government but to highlight the fact that a long term non-partisan view of the nation's interest is necessary for us to build a system that is sound and resilient to any change in the party that forms the government. A sound and resilient socio-economic-political system is what we should all focus on building.

So, my SG50 wish is this. I wish for Singapore to build upon what she has and develop a sound and resilient socio-economic-political system that will secure the future progress and continuing success of Singapore as a nation. Without being tied to the apron strings of any political party, PAP or otherwise.

We care. I am sure we all do

The volunteers arrived in groups. There were friends, couples, parent and child, and even individuals who were alone, who decided to do some good on a Sunday morning yesterday.

They had come to help distribute bread, biscuits, cooked rice and roti prata to two blocks of 16-storey high rental flats in North Bridge Road. They knocked on the doors, talked to the residents and helped to note down the living conditions of the flat dwellers, who were mostly living alone or with someone else. 

The oldest resident we met today was a 93 year-old grandmother who was dressed in her black buddhist robes. She was about to start her prayers when we visited and was happy that we had come. She was a little hard of hearing and lives all by herself. Her only daughter is apparently suffering from a weak heart and I gather they hardly see each other and communicate only through the telephone.

At the end of the distribution, I spoke to the volunteers who had joined us for the first time in such kind of work. Some found it hard to express what they had seen and they were surprised that there were such needy people in affluent Singapore. They are saddened by their encounters today but their spirits are uplifted by the sight of so many fellow volunteers who came to show they care.

We care. I am sure we all do. And as we count our blessings,  let's continue to show those less fortunate than us a little kindness whenever we can.